I have made many resolutions over the years. Resolutions to get healthy, to work out, to learn to snowboard, to be 'more girly'... needless to say, most of my good intentions quickly fall to the wayside as life's hectic pace flings me into fast forward with simple day-to-day living.
Over the past couple weeks my mind has been twirling with ideas, of resolutions for 2008. Mainly ways to divert my thinking onto mindless yet productive tasks ("learn to crochet" or "learn to garden"), hobbies I've always admired but never would commit to do because of my self-consciousness ("learn to play guitar" and "take that French class I've inquired about 4 years running and have never actually signed up for"), past times I've started but have let sit on the 'back burner' while I deal with laundry or laze on the couch ("start and actually finish reading a book!", "finish all of those scrapbook pages")...
Well friends, I am writing today to publicly commit to a huge endeavor!
And NO I'm not training for a marathon (sorry Margaret- you inspire me, but I'd much rather stand on the sidelines and hand you water than get sweaty myself! Besides- this is Saskatchewan, anything that requires me to leave the house to 'train' between the months of October and May is not on my 'maybe' list!
Nope- this is an endeavour that will hopefully have a profound and long lasting impact on our little town and the little people that live in it!
After discussing it with Grant, I am going to create the Reece Ryde Memorial Foundation.
This foundation's purpose will be to raise funds to purchase items to enhance the lives of children in our community. The first 'to do' item is to build a park for children ages 2-5. Other 'to-dos' are to purchase items for the First Responders and Fire Department (assuming they have a wish list- but what small town group doesn't!?!)
I have looked into the costs of park equipment... and my only comment on that is: "yikes".
There is some insanely fun park equipment out there. But even a modest park is going to run about $30,000. I still have to approach the Town Council to see if they would be willing to accept the gift and if they would provide a site for the park (hopefully close to the existing school park which is for 'big kids' (5-12) that way parents have a one stop play area.
I've been scouring the catalogues picking out items that Reecey would have liked. Lots of rock walls and swings!
So there you have it, I'm committed, and to quote myself "it's official".
On a side note,
I truly wish it to be known how deeply touched Grant and I (and our families) are to read the comments, emails, blog posts, letters and cards we have received. I remember a few years ago, while dealing with the sadness of the loss of a co-worker and friend from breast cancer, I often thought, do my friends know just how deeply I care for each of them, although we may only catch up every few years?
Now I know.
We want each of you to know you are in our hearts, each of you in a special and unique way, and thank you again.
Below I am going to attach another video of Reece (just a tidbit- but we took almost 10,000 pictures on our camera 95% of those of the girls, since May 06!)
this particular video is brought to you by popular demand, and had apparently changed the way Auntie Erin hears the rain in BC :) And I'm thinking down the road perhaps the Reece Ryde Memorial Fund will have to raise funds for a spray park!
Much love.
Ange & Grant
FYI- She is saying "NO!...SPIKE!" at the beginning. Spike is the dog at her sitters that she liked to boss around ;) Dunno where she got that bossy streak from?!
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I think that you have a wonderful idea! Let me know if there is anything I can do to help! I know our family misses Reece very much too - even though we only knew her for a short time. Your videos show how very precious she was and will always be.
Thanks Pam! You can bet I will be asking for your help! I'll need all the help I can get once I get this all figured out! And thanks for loving our little Reecey- she loved following your 'big girls' around ;).
That is such a great idea! What a way to keep Reece's memory alive! If you any suggestions or any help please do not hesitate to let me know!
Good on you, Ange. Sounds like an awesome thing to focus your thoughts and energies on. AND, what you've been through and what you're going through is WAY more challenging than anything I could ever cook up. That's real-life stuff, Ange, I'm just filling in time with the things I do. You're making a difference.
Thinking about you all every, single day.
Margaret
I saw in your eyes this past weekend what this means to you and the ambition you have shown for accomplishing this feat - by golly, you will get it done. I know the families in this town and surrounding community will be honored to have a memorial park here in Reece's name. It will truly be a special place and (I'm sure) will be used excessively!!
If there's anything I can do to help you during this venture - please don't be afraid to ask.
Call me anytime -
Cas
I LOVE the idea. I would encourage you to set up a bank account for your fundraising (if you haven't already done so). I would be honored to make a donation to such a worthy cause.
I would like to challenge other mothers and fathers to contribute one of their Childcare benefit cheques - I would be the first in line. If each family could make a small sacrifice like this we could have the funds for the park in no time.
Please let me know how I can contribute the money.
I would love to contribute our child's benefit cheque! That is a wonderful idea/challenge.
Ange, let us know where I can send the money, when you are ready, and to whom!
You guys are amazing! I'm so proud to know you! How can I help?
Love,
Erin
You guys are so fantastic. Thank you so much for your encouragement! We meet with Town Council tomorrow. We have decided to present the idea of a "Reece Ryde Memorial Park" for ages 2-5 with a picnic area for family to sit. We are hoping they will be on board with the idea! As soon as we find out anything we will let everyone know! We are very excited about honouring our little Reecey this way. (There will of course be a little 'wall climb" section for the munchkins as well!)
All our love,
Ange & Grant
Hi Ange,
I know we haven't spoken in a while, I just want to say how truley sorry I am to hear about your little girl. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Grant.
The memorial foundation sounds like a wonderful idea. Please let me know if there is anything at all I can do to help.
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